It can be difficult to let go a situation, but accepting the "next" is essential for personal growth . Letting yourself to process the loss is necessary , but resist lingering in the rearview mirror. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4FBtGP7zSs&list=OLAK5uy_kaqfjK_D00GAl1qeI8R1YmIE36j-RCLho&index=1